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Recommended Books

The Relationship Cure: A Five-Step Guide for Building Better Connections with  Family, Friends, and Lovers

by John M. Gottman, Joan Declaire, John Gottman

Leading relationship expert and best selling author Dr. John Gottman, who has won numerous awards for his groundbreaking research, presents a revolutionary five-step program for repairing troubled relationships — with spouses and lovers, children and other family members, friends, and even your boss or colleagues at work. Drawing on a host of powerful new studies, as well as h is 29 years of analyzing relationships and conducting relationship therapy, Gottman provides the tools you need to make your relationships thrive.


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Parenting

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Parenting With Love and Logic : Teaching Children Responsibility by Foster W. Cline, Jim Fay

 

John Kennington, Fellowship Today Magazine, December 1990 - If you're looking for practical parenting skills, this book is a must. The pages are chock full of tips that you can implement right away...this book is one of the best parenting resources I've seen. Because of what I learned from this book, I've already seen positive changes in my relationship with my son. Don't let this vital resource slip by. (Jolene L. Roehlkepartain, OURS Magazine, February 1993)  Without question, this is the most practical book I have ever read on this subject, and I hope that every parent gets a copy and puts it into practice.

 

Taking Care of Your Child: A Parent’s Illustrated Guide to Complete Medical Care

by Robert H. Pantell, M.D., James F. Fries, M.D. & Donald M. Vickery

 

Giving the Love that Heals

by Harville Hendrix

This groundbreaking book offers a unique opportunity for personal transformation: by resolving issues that originated in our childhood, we can achieve a conscious, and thus healthier, relationship with our children, regardless of their age.   A remarkable tool for improving parent-child relationships.

 

Toxic Parents: Overcoming their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life

by Susan Forwad & Craig Buck

 

Grandparents Raising Second Families

Grandparents' Rights: With Forms (Grandparents' Rights), by Traci Truly

With changes in demographics, grandparents are living longer and want to spend as much time as they can with their grandchildren. There is no other book in the marketplace that so clearly addresses the rights of this growing population.

 

To Grandma's House, We...Stay : When You Have to Stop Spoiling Your Grandchildren and Start Raising Them by Sally Houtman, Bob Rowland (Editor)

Arthur Kornhaber, M.D., President and Founder, Foundation For Grandparenting  - "Grandparents raising their grandchildren will do well to read and enjoy this book."

 

Raising Our Children's Children by Deborah Doucette-Dudman, Jeffrey R. Lacure

More than three million U.S. children live with grandparents or other relatives, but kinship care has yet to receive the social support accorded other forms of adoption and foster care. In this guidebook for grandparents parenting grandchildren, family therapist LaCure adds therapeutic guidelines to Doucette-Dudman's informed, empathic case studies. Principal issues addressed are managing stress, negotiating legal hurdles, locating support, telling children their life stories, managing conflict, and creating a stable, secure, permanent setting for children whose parents cannot or will not parent. Doucette-Dudman and LaCure stress that finding support for the extended family, without severing fragile ties with the nuclear family, and creating a home that best meets the needs of the child are the great challenges grandparents face. Kathryn Carpenter --This text refers to an out of print or unavailable edition of this title.

 

Relatives Raising Children: An Overview of Kinship Care by Joseph Crumbley (Editor), Robert L. Little (Editor)

RELATIVES RAISING CHILDREN: AN OVERVIEW OF KINSHIP CARE provides the reader with excellent descriptions of the many issues found in the growing phenomena of family members raising their grandchildren or other relative children. Although written for the professional, the format is easy to follow and very thorough. The authors present the many possible perspectives of the child, the relative caregiver and the parent in this difficult situation. They also provide intervention techniques for the professional.

 

Grandparents as Parents by Sylvie De Toledo, et al

Peter Warren, Seniors Today - This is a reference book, a character-builder, a challenge and a friend.

 

Private Practice

 

Breaking Free of Managed Care

by Dana C. Ackley

 

How to Build a Thriving Fee-For-Service Practice: Integrating the Healing Side with the Business Side of Psychotherapy

by Laurie Kolt

 

How to Get Referrals: The Mental Health Professionals Guide to Strategic Marketing

by Linda L. Lawless, Jean Wright

 

How to Build and Market Your Mental Health Practice

by Linda L. Lawless

 

Building Your Ideal Private Practice: A Guide for Therapists and Other Healing Professionals

by Lynn Grodzki

A practice-building guide for therapists and healing professionals. Therapist and business coach Lynn Grodzki shows readers how to build an ideal practice--one custom designed to be both highly profitable and personally satisfying. Here they will find information, coaching, and support to help them make more money in private practice, be more confident as business owners, generate a steady flow of referrals, set good practice policies, and stay profitable. Best of all, the inspiring, practical tone of the book will reduce the fear and anxiety that affect so many professionals in private practice.

 

The New Private Practice: Therapist-Coaches Share Stories, Strategies and Advice

by Lynn Grodzki (Editor)

 

Couples Therapy

Divorce Remedy: The Proven 7-Step Program for Saving Your Marriage

by Michele Weiner-Davis

 

The Sex-Starved Marriage: The Couple's Guide to Understanding Mismatched Sexual Desire and Boosting Their Marriage Libido by Michele Weiner-Davis

It's been estimated that one-third of couples face issues of low desire, the impact of which is felt beyond the bedroom: "Unsatisfying sexual relationships," Davis writes, "are the all-too-frequent causes of alienation, infidelity and divorce." Unfortunately, libidos are rarely equal; most marriages have a low-desire spouse and a high-desire spouse. Davis offers advice for both, bolstered by numerous examples of how that advice has worked for couples she's encountered during her two decades as a marriage counselor. Her "field-tested" tips are sensible rather than earth-shattering-talk openly, be kind, commit to making a change for the better and set concrete, attainable goals-but in the hard-to-talk-about realm of sex, very welcome indeed.  Copyright 2002 Reed Business Information, Inc.

 

Fighting For Your Marriage: Positive Steps for Preventing Divorce and Preserving a Lasting Love, New and revised  

by Howard J. Markman, Scott Stanley and Susan Blumberg

 

The Infertility Survival Guide: Everything You Need to Know to Cope with the Challenges while Maintaining Your Sanity, Dignity, and Relationships

by Judith C., Ph.D. Daniluk, Ph.D., Judith C. Daniluk, Margo Fluker

Testimonials from men and women who have survived fertility difficulties accompany exercises and practical strategies designed to help readers make informed decisions, cope with stress and anger, consider third-party reproductive options, and decide when it’s time to quit treatment and move on.

 

The Brief Couples Therapy Homework Planner

by Gary M. Schultheis, et al

 

Stop Blaming, Start Loving: A Solution-Oriented Approach to Improving Your Relationship

by William Hudson O'Hanlon, et al

 

Intimate Connections

by David D. Burns

 

Love Is Never Enough: How Couples Can Overcome Misunderstands, Resolve Conflicts, and Solve Relationship Problems Through Cognitive Therapy

by Aaron T. Beck

 

We Can Work It Out: Making Sense of Marital Conflict

by Clifford Notarius, Ph.D. & Howard Markman, Ph.D.

 

Getting the Love You Want: A Guide for Couples

By Harville Hendrix

 

The Couples Companion: Meditations and Exercises for Getting the Love You Want

By Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt

 

Rekindling Desire: A Step by Step Program to Help Low Sex and No-Sex Marriages

By Barry W. McCarthy, Emily J. McCarthy

 

The Brief Couples Therapy Homework Planner

by Gary M. Schultheis, et al

 

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships

By David Schnarch

 

The Dance of Connection

By Harriet Lerner

 

The Play Solution: How to Put the Fun and Excitement Back into Your Relationship

By Jeanette C. Lauer and Robert H. Lauer

 

The Dance of Anger

By Harriet Lerner

 

Taming Your Gremlin: A Guide to Enjoying Yourself

By Richard D. Carson

 

Facing Codependence: What It Is, Where It Comes From, How It Sabotages Our Lives

By Pia Mellody and Andrea Wells Miller

 

The Relationship Cure: A Five-Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family & Friendships

By John Gottman, Ph.D

 

Patterns of Infidelity and Their Treatment (2nd Edition)

by Emily M. Brown

The new edition of this highly-regarded book includes comprehensive discussion of the nature of an affair and the five types of affairs and their underlying dynamics. The author addresses issues regarding revealing the affair, management of the consequences, rebuilding, and treating an unmarried third party, as well as the host of complex issues regarding children and custody arrangements. New material for the second edition includes cybersex and the effects of new technology on fidelity in marriage; the effects of managed care on treatment; marriage to the third party; and a new chapter on affairs and violence.

 

After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust when a Partner Has Been Unfaithful

by Janis Spring

 

Private Lies: Infidelity and Betrayal of Intimacy (Paperback)

by Frank Pittman

 

NOT "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity (Paperback)

by Shirley Glass, Jean Coppock Staeheli

 

Infidelity: A Survival Guide by Don-David Lusterman

 

Surviving an Affair by Willard F. Harley Jr

 

His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage by Willard F. Harley Jr.

 

Family Therapy

Family First: Your Step-by-Step Plan for Creating a Phenomenal Family by Dr. Phil McGraw

Beyond Technique in Family Therapy: Finding Your Therapeutic Voice

by George M. Simon

 

Family Evaluation: An Approach Based on Bowen Theory

by Michael E. Kerr, Murray Bowen

 

Mastering Family Therapy: Journeys of Growth and Transformation

by Salvador Minuchin, et al

 

Families and Family Therapy

by Salvador Minuchin

 

The Family Crucible: The Intense Experience of Family Therapy

by Augustus Y. Napier, Carl A. Whitaker

 

Do One Thing Different: Ten Simple Ways to Change Your Life

by Bill O'Hanlon

 

A Guide to Possibility Land: Fifty-One Methods for Doing Brief, Respectful Therapy

by William Hudson O'Hanlon, et al

 

In Search of Solutions: A New Direction in Psychotherapy

by William Hudson O'Hanlon, Michele Weiner-Davis

 

Change Your Life and Everyone in It: How to: Transform Difficult Relationships over Come Anxiety and Depression Break Free from Self-Defeating Ways

by Michele Weiner-Davis

 

Crisis Intervention

The Scared Child: Helping Kids Overcome Traumatic Events

by Barbara Brooks and Paula M. Siegel

 

Crisis Counseling: What to Do and Say During the First 72 Hours: A Practical Guide for Pastors, Counselors and Friends

by H. Norman Wright

 

Crisis Intervention Handbook: Assessment, Treatment, and Research

by Albert R. Roberts (Editor)

 

Adolescents in Crisis: A Guidebook for Parents, Teachers, Ministers, and Counselors

by Wade G., Jr Rowatt, G. Wade, Jr. Rowatt

 

A Guide to Crisis Intervention

by Kristi Kanel

 

Domestic Violence & Abuse

Preventing Violence (Prospects for Tomorrow)

by James Gilligan

 

Psychological Abuse in Violent Domestic Relations

by K. Daniel O'Leary (Editor), Roland D. Maiuro (Editor)

 

The Domestic Violence Sourcebook

by Dawn Bradley Berry, Dawn Bradley Berry

 

When Violence Begins at Home: A Comprehensive Guide to Understanding and Ending Domestic Abuse

by Wilson, Karen Wilson

 

Violence: Reflections on a National Epidemic

by James Gilligan

 

Beginning to Heal: A First Book for Man and Women Who Were Sexually Abused as Children

by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis

 

The Courage to Heal: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse  

by Ellen Bass and Laura Davis

 

Allies in Healing: When the Person You Love was Sexually Abused as a Child   

by Laura Davis

 

 

Grief and Bereavement

Guiding your Child Through Grief

by Mary Ann Emswiler and James P. Emswiler

Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies by Marta Felber 

I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye: Surviving, Coping and Healing After the Death of a Loved One by Brook Noel and Pamela D Blair 

On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler 

When Parents Die: A Guide for Adults by Edward Myers 

How To Go On Living When Someone You Love Dies by Therese A. Rando 

Living with Grief: A Guide for Your First Year of Grieving (Grief Steps Guide) by Brook Noel and Pamela D Blair 

Good Grief by Lolly Winston 

A Decembered Grief: Living With Loss While Others Are Celebrating by Harold Ivan Smith 

Getting to the Other Side of Grief: Overcoming the Loss of a Spouse by Susan J. Zonnebelt-Smeenge and Robert C. De Vries

Health, Mind and Bodycover

 

 

 

 

 

 

Feet First: A Guide to Feet Reflexology

by Laura Norman & Thomas Cowan

 

Natural Healing for Schizophrenia: And Other Common Mental Disorders

by Eva Edelman

Editorial Reviews

William J. Walsh, Ph.D., Research Director, Pfeiffer Treatment Center and Health Research Institute, 1998

Most useful volume on nutritional methods for mental illness in 20 years... Valuable resource for researchers, clinicians and families alike.

Ralph Golan, M.D., Back Cover Notes, 1998

A magnificent and needed contribution to the field of mental health. A superb work, a beacon of hope.

 

The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook: Cure Yourself of Worry, Depression, Chronic Anxiety, and Fear

by Martha Davis, Matthew McKey & Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman

 

The Chronic Illness Experience: Embracing the Imperfect Life

by Cheri Register

 

Take Care of Yourself: The Complete Illustrated Guide to Medical Self Care By Donald M. Vickery, M.D. & James F. Fries

 

Spiritual & Religious

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Care of the Soul : A Guide for Cultivating Depth and Sacredness in Everyday Life

by Thomas Moore

 

 

 

Care of the Soul: How to Add Depth and Meaning to Your Everyday Life

by Thomas Moore 

 

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Soul Mates: Honoring the Mysteries of Love and Relationships

by Thomas Moore

 

 

 

 

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  The Soul of Sex: Cultivating Life As an Act of Love

  by Thomas Moore

 

 

 

 

The Seat of the Soul

by Gary Zukav

 

The Interfaith Family Guidebook

by Joan C. Hawxhurst

 

Elder Care

How to Care for Aging Parent’s

by Virginia Morris

 

Elder Rage, or Take My Father... Please!: How to Survive Caring for Aging Parents

by Jacqueline Marcell

 

Self-Care Now! 30 Tips to Help You Take Care of Yourself & Minimize Caregiver Burnout

by Pauline Salvucci

 

The Alzheimer's Caregiver : Dealing with the Realities of Dementia

by Harriet Hodgson

 

Anger Management

 

coverOf Course You're Angry: A Guide to Dealing with the Emotions of Substance Abuse

by Gayle Rosellini, Mark Worden, Garth M. Rosell, Gayle Rossellini

 

First published in 1985 and packed with real-life examples and down to earth advice on the nature and resolution of anger, this best-seller shows readers how to make anger work in a positive and effective way that can ease the challenges of early recovery.

The Dance of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships, by Harriet Lerner

Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of Anger and Get More Out of Life by Thomas J. Harbin 

Taking Charge of Anger: How to Resolve Conflict, Sustain Relationships, and Express Yourself without Losing Control by W. Robert Nay 

When Anger Hurts: Quieting the Storm Within by Matthew McKay, Peter D., Ph.D. Rogers, and Judith McKay 

The Anger Trap: Free Yourself from the Frustrations that Sabotage Your Life by Les Carter 

Anger Management: 6 Critical Steps to a Calmer Life by Peter J. Favaro 

:60 Second Anger Management: Quick Tips to Handle Explosive Feelings by Dr. Michael Hershorn 

 

Life Coaching

Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters.

by Phillip C. McGraw, Ph.D.

 

Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy

by David D. Burns, M.D. & Aaron T. Beck

 

Mind Over Mood: Change How You Feel by Changing the Way You Think

by Dennis Greenberger, Ph.D. & Christine A. Padesky, Ph.D.

 

Self-Esteem, 3rd Edition

by Matthew McKay, Ph.D. & Patrick Fanning

 

Thoughts and Feelings: Taking Control of Your Moods and Your Life

by Matthew McKay, Martha Davis & Patrick Fanning

 

The Relaxation and Stress Reduction Workbook: Cure Yourself of Worry, Depression, Chronic Anxiety, and Fear by Martha Davis, Matthew McKey & Elizabeth Robbins Eshelman

Time Management From the Inside Out By Julie Morganstern

Creative Visualization Use Power of Your Imagination to Create What You Want in Your Life By Shakti Gawain

Success is Not an Accident: Change Your Choice, Change Your Life By Tommy Newberry

Recovery Of Your Self-Esteem: A Guide For Women by Carolynn Hillman 

Maximum Self-Esteem: The Handbook for Reclaiming Your Sense of Self-Worth (Paperback) by Jerry Minchinton

Alcoholism

Beyond the Influence: Understanding and Defeating Alcoholism by Katherine Ketcham, William F. Asbury, Mel Schulstad, and Arthur P. Ciaramicoli 

Sober for Good: New Solutions for Drinking Problems -- Advice from Those Who Have Succeeded by Anne M. Fletcher

Marriage On The Rocks: Learning to Live with Yourself and an Alcoholic by Janet Woititz

 


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